✦ I am totally fine with random messages, but DON'T expect me to respond instantly, I can be busy + just forget. Reminders are fine, but don't be annoying!!✦ I crosspost often (reposting what I post on one site on another)✦ I block liberally to curate my online experience and its not always personal.✦ MY FOCUS SUCKS AND IM EASILY DISTRACTED.✦ I appreciate directness + honesty✦ I tend to be very skeptical✦ I have inattentive ADHD, BPD, AND C-PTSD among anxiety issues.
While I'm treated for these things, they still impact my social ability the most, so please keep that in mind. I also work + am somewhat of an individualized adult with a full time job, car, etc. Irl stuff comes before online enjoyment so I can be very busy at times.✦ I'm not a media purist, and I believe you can enjoy things critically + write whatever, people are complex. However I do not agree with typical proship rhetoric and how shamelessly reckless the whole community is, notably regarding mindfulness when indulging in certain things/sharing that material. I have many bad experiences relating to this interpersonally to say the absolute least that reinforces this discomfort.✦ Lastly, you may see me speak out against “popular opinion” multiple times in different threads/etc with any given personal or art account of mine even if it throws me into a line of fire. (I usually commentate and then mute the thread so I can move on. Out of sight out of mind.)
*I'm not someone that likes to be a bystander, even if the situation is seemingly nothing, I like to bring awareness in some form. Especially when others are not speaking up. I find a sense of self worth in it in that I'm at least providing a window for others to consider other important perspectives of any given conflict

Idk i wanna use this for smth cool/relevant later